HOW TO PREPARE FOR DEATH WHEN DYING

HOW TO PREPARE FOR DEATH WHEN DYING

The subject of Death and dying is one that a lot of people avoid talking about. But it is important to think about death since all of us will eventually die someday. Even more important is preparing for it when you have a chronic or life-threatening illness that could shorten your lifespan. Chronic illnesses such as HIV/AIDS, and cancer can afford a person an opportunity to say goodbye to their family and to 'prepare' for their departure.

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How to prepare for death when dying

When nothing more could be done medically to prolong or save a person's life, it is not just the sick person that suffers, but their families too.

Ways to cope and prepare for dying:

1. If you have children, talk to friends and relatives about who will be their gurdian once you are gone. Talk to your children about that too and explain where they will live, if they are to move from their home.

2. Put all important documentation in a safe place and tell somebody about them. Give them policy details and contacts.

3. Make a will if you don't already have one.

4. If you have no one to look after your children once you are gone, you may wish to talk to a social worker about that and state your wishes - regarding your kids and your possessions -in your will.

Proper planing will make it much easier for your family to cope with their loss.

"I WAS TRYING TO PUT MYSELF IN A BOTTLE THAT WOULD ONE DAY WASH UP ON THE BEACH FOR MY CHILDREN. IF I WERE A PAINTER, I WOULD HAVE PAINTED FOR THEM. BUT I AM A LECTURER, SO I LECTURED"

~ RANDY PAUSCH, PHD, AUTHOR OF THE "LAST LECTURE"(RANDY HAD TO DEAL WITH THE FACT THAT HE WAS LEFT WITH ONLY A COUPLE OF MONTHS TO LIVE, AFTER BEING DIAGNOSED WITH PANCREATIC CANCER. IN HIS BOOK, HE TALKS ABOUT LIVING LIKE A LIVING PERSON (NOT A DYING MAN) AND LEAVING NOT JUST LASTING MEMORIES, BUT LASTING LIFE LESSONS FOR HIS CHILDREN)

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